My fellow lovers of the love month, hello to you!❤️ It’s been 25 days and counting of exciting posts, hearty laughter, thoughtful reflections, banters, expressions of prayers, wishes, and heart desires, attending or catching up on events, giving and receiving gifts, sending thoughtful messages, and the list goes on!
I hope one or more of these outlines captures what you’ve done so far this month, and I believe every time that went into doing these was worth it for you. I’d like to offer you a quick reminder; you are loved and valued, no matter what your relationship status says.
You are a love being, and you have love speaking and calling in your direction from all over, beginning with the most perfect version that your Father expresses and showers on you at all times, and then coming down to the wonderful people that He has placed in your circle and your corner. Open your arms and embrace the gift of men that you have!
I’d like to thank you deeply for engaging the posts this month. It was amazing seeing your reposts, comments, likes, shares, and commitment renewals. I am indeed grateful for how you’ve showered me and what I do with massive love. You’ve given me the gift of your presence this month, and I do not take it for granted. I love and appreciate you!
Right about now, we have to take a glance at how The Mirror and Reflection’s February went. I remember that we opened the floor with “Breathing in Love” on the 4th of February, 2025, which addresses love becoming our default setting and the motive behind our thoughts, words, actions, and inactions.
This post also pulls us to take a few steps aside to work on how we express love, bearing in mind that we are taking a love walk with not just romantic partners, but first with a loving Father to Who we must stay committed, with ourselves as evolve into who have been called to be, and also with the people who matter in our world, as well as those who we might even have a one-time encounter with.
In the post, we mentioned God being the Source of love, and the importance of having Him as a sure influence over our lives. Also, we talked about not hesitating to be good and doing good deeds, opening ourselves up to beautiful associations, and being present for those we call ours. It’s a good time to read the entire post, make use of the button right here!
We took the topic a notch higher by examining “Breathing in Love 2” on the 12th of February, 2025, talking about some of the actions and inactions of love. We established that as a love being, there are some things we would go all out to do as our love nature requires, while there are some things we would never be found doing, also as a result of the nature that we carry.
As love beings, we must be careful to ensure that the beautiful complexity of our human nature does not become a disadvantage. Therefore, we are expected to be given to seeking peace and making things better, putting our hearts in the right place, and taking a unified stand for progress, no matter whether our opinion wins the vote or not.
Likewise, we are propelled to correct and receive correction in love, be available for and to our loved ones when things are smooth or otherwise, encourage healing and not open up scars, as well as avoid seeking revenge. There’s a lot more to add to the list, but I remembered that the work had been done previously. So, kindly click here to get the juicy details.
As a way of wrapping up the February series, we got ourselves into “A Love Circle” on the 19th of February, 2025. This post dwells on the importance of rebuilding and repurposing our friendships and relationships. We must understand that friendship is the starting point of all key relationships. Therefore, it must be given priority and taken with all seriousness.
As individuals who are intentional about building great bonds with those people we love and care about, we have to first recognize that friendship is important by seeing it from the lens through which God sees it. In the post, I input a few verses of scriptures which relays how important this concept is and also tells us to take it as such.
Then, we went further to talk about being a good friend by learning to extend grace to people despite their imperfections, a realization that comes from remembering that we are also flawed in some ways, and we all are working towards becoming better. Also, we talked about reminding our friends about what we would love our friendship to birth and where we want it to go and making growth-fostering decisions together.
Some other essential things to do are having conversations, some of which might seem difficult sometimes but are very necessary to have, acknowledging and taking responsibility for faults, apologizing genuinely for wrongs, among many other things. To sum it up, we must always bear in mind that beyond the desire for a good friendship, there are responsibilities that keep the fire burning and which we must be diligently given to. This is one particular post that you should not skip reading, the way to go is right here!
I believe you have learnt a lot from this space and all the other places you have been to this month, and I hope all these lessons spur you to become a better lover. May all your relationships work out fine, and may the joy that love brings be yours to enjoy every time. Please, keep the comments, follows, reposts, and all you do coming. Thank you for an amazing February, see you in March!✍️
